Giving, Not Getting

We seem to be surrounded by people who are in crisis-- victims of natural disasters, disease, poverty and homelessness. Many people want to reach out to those in need. While we think that is great we do just suggest that you use caution whenever you donate to whichever charitable cause you are interested in.

We all get phone calls from organizations asking for our financial help. We did a little research and came across these tips from the Federal Trade Commission's website that you should keep in mind before you commit to making a financial donation:

  1. Ask for the charity's name, address, and phone number, and written information about its programs.
  2. Ask whether the person contacting you is a professional fundraiser and how much of your contribution will go to fundraising costs.
  3. Check the history of the organization with the office that regulates charities in your state, National Association of State Charity Officials [or in Canada].

Also from the same website, there is a list with some clues as to whether the appeal for donations may be a scam:

  1. High pressure pitches. Reject them: It's okay to hang up.
  2. A thank you for a pledge you don't remember making? Be skeptical; scam artists will lie to get your money.
  3. Requests for cash? Avoid giving cash donations.
  4. Charities that offer to send a courier or overnight delivery service to collect your money.
  5. Charities that guarantee sweepstakes winnings in exchange for a contribution.
  6. Charities that spring up overnight, especially those that involve current events like natural disasters, or those that claim to be for police officers, veterans, or firefighters. They probably don't have the infrastructure to get your donations to the affected area or people.

We want you to share with others, but you need to make sure that you get your money to the people you intend to help. Keep in mind that when a charity outsources its fundraising, it may actually only get a very small amount of the money you contribute. Do you have a favorite charity? Give to them DIRECTLY to make sure that all your money makes it to the charity.

Okay, but let's say you really want to help your fellowman but you don't have any spare cash. Are you out of luck?—of course not. There are plenty of ways to give without giving money.

  • Things you make
  • Your time
  • Your patience
  • Your compassion
  • Your expertise
  • Where and how you shop

Time, talents, experience and cash are all ways that you can make a "contribution" that will make a difference in someone's life!

Why do people choose to give? There are many reasons: to help those in need, to make a difference in someone's life, out of guilt, because there's a tax break—maybe perhaps just because it makes them feel good. Whatever the reason...we do think it goes without saying that there are many people in unfortunate situations and that are in need of help. How and why you choose to share what you have is very personal. The important thing is to do something!

P.S. The twelfth chapter of our personal finance book: Power Spending: Getting More For Less, is about Giving, Not Getting. There are seven sections: Charitable giving on a budget, Money isn't everything, Do we have a volunteer?, Encore careers, My brother's keeper, Give me a (tax) break and Final Words of Wisdom.

When we put our book together, we wanted to provide our readers with tons of valuable information. The book would be both an instruction and a resource manual for personal finance. The Power Spending website would also support the book and would provide additional resources for our readers.

These additional resources are divided into two sections: How You Give To Others and Giving, Not Getting Resources. We just want to give you a brief description of what you will find in each section.

How You Give To Others—We wanted to hear what "real" people had to say about how they use money. We put together surveys with questions that related to each chapter of the book. The answers to our questions appear under this section. As we receive more stories, tips and suggestions they are added to this section. We invite you to share your ideas here as well. That is, if you are a "real" person!

Giving, Not Getting Resources—Although we know lots and have many ideas to share, we have to admit that we really aren't "know-it-alls". We are willing to acknowledge that there are lots of other great websites with fantastic information (available on the Internet) that will help you with every aspect of your finances. We've done the research; you will reap the benefits of our efforts. We encourage you to learn all you can and these links will help you to do just that. Take a look!

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